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My Pandemic Survival Plan Social distancing is a must for us to flatten the curve and survive this pandemic.   We are in it together as our survival depends on each other.   I am listing a few things I plan to that you can emulate and help us survive. QUESTION:  What can you do if there is a lock down or more severe social distancing? MY RECOMMENDATIONS: 1.       Practice Social Distancing as much as possible.   Except for grocery and walks, I don’t plan to get out of my home. 2.       Use my time inside our home to reconnect with friends through social media and the phone.   I am sure most of them will find some company useful to distract them from the news. 3.       Clean closets and identify old clothes that I can donate to charity. Many people will lose jobs and will need all the help that they can get during this time.   I have clothes, including jackets and blankets, which I have not used for years.   I have kept it as these are hardly used and I wa
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LOSS OF MY MOTHER: PAIN HEALS SLOWLY BUT MEMORIES NEVER FADE

Exactly one month after my 15 th birthday, I was surprised when my uncle picked me from school.   I was told during the ride home that my mother was sick but I did not suspect anything.   After all, she had cooked breakfast and teased me about being in a hurry to get to school to show the new clothes that she had got for my birthday.   Only if I had known that would be the last I will ever see her, I would have clung to her till the end, said a proper goodbye and apologized for ever having hurt her.   When I reached home, my father was crying and told me that my mom had died.   As I did not react, my brother screamed and tried to convey the loss to me.   Later I learned that my mom died at the hospital.   I knew that she had gone with my dad to see her cardiologist for a check-up; who then told my parents that she was having a heart attack and admitted her in the hospital. Within an hour she was dead.   It was a shock for all of us but it is I who did not realize the impact i

THE REASONS FOR THE SUCCESS OF ASIAN AMERICANS: ROLE MODELS AND MENTORS

I have often wondered why Asian Americans are the highest-income, best-educated and fastest-growing racial group in the United States.  In many ways, I share their experiences.  Like 74% of them, I was also born abroad; and like half of them, I will say, I speak English very well.  Some other statistics and comparisons are also interesting and for some people, may explain why Asian Americans are more successful.  More than six-in-ten adults ages 25 to 64 who have come from Asia in recent years have at least a bachelor’s degree.  I had a Master’s degree when I came to the United States in 1984.  In spite of all the reasons cited above, I used to struggle to explain why Asian Americans do better than any other race.  This is because I didn’t believe that the reason for my success was the education that I had when I entered the country.  Being unable to explain, I could not share my experiences and help my brethren in my adopted country.  I found that being an excellent te